I was raised to dream big and I could be anything I want to be. I remember when I told my mother that I want to be a fashion designer and she supported my dreams this might sound like I come from a perfect family truth is I don't come from one my family is very broken we don't get along.
I chose education when girls of my age chose marriage yes in our village you are a woman if you get married and have children and if you not married and don't have any children you are less of woman.
I could have been a married woman if I didn't do any abortion I would have been married to my first boyfriend Hlanga Jola but l didn't want the child I wanted education I was hungry for success. The only person who helped me with it was Lindiwe the baby wasn't fully developed it was just a clot formation and when it came out we burried it next to the tree on her parents yard after few weeks I broke up with Hlanga without telling him about the abortion.
Last year of varsity i met my knight Lindani Mdlalose one rich man I ever met in my life he wanted to marry me but the fear of putting my life on hold for him made me scared I mean I spent four years in varsity fighting for my degree not a marriage certificate I didn't want to end up like Lindiwe a house wife depending on my husband for money.
Today am a well known fashion designer in Mzansi I rub shoulders with your David Tlale
Today am a well known fashion designer in Mzansi I rub shoulders with your David Tlale Gert - Johan Coetzee you name them and three months ago I was featured in the London fashion week and I stayed a little longer being a mentor on aspiring fashion designers. My career is excelling and I intend on keeping it that way.