An abuser can seem emotionally needy. You can get caught in a trap of catering to him trying to fill a bottomless pit. But he’s not so much needy as entitled so no matter how much you give him it will never be enough. He will just keep coming up with more demands because he believes his needs are your responsibility until you feel drained down to nothing.
I just couldn't believe Philip would hit me and top of it all he had the audacity to sleep with his bossin the name of making me have a better life .
I got out of bed and prepared myself for class it was my first day ..
my love " he said
I ignored him
my love it was the work of the devil I promise never to hit you again" he said
okay " I said walking away
today was my 19th birthday I felt grown for my years ..I missed my family so much I wish I could see them even once .
why you sitting here alone " he said
don't know anyone here " I said
I also don't know anyone but am here " he said
am Tim and you are" he asked
am Jennifer " I said
nice meeting you Jennifer " he said showing his perfect dental formula ..
I will see you tomorrow I have to go " I said
where are you going " he asked
home I remembered I haven't washed my husband's clothes " I said
I just wanted to be home alone ..when I got home I got the shock of my life he sat a romantic dinner it was 17 so I can call it dinner right?
happy birthday my love "he said
oh my gosh " I said
come " he said
I went to take a seat I couldn't believe my husband can be this romantic after our dinner we went and made love like it was our first time. .
my love your phone is ringing " I yelled
but he didn't respond
my love your phone is ringing " I yelled
but he didn't respond I picked up the phone ..
hey baby" the girl said
sorry its not your baby" I said
oh who is this " she asked
am his wife " I said
oh shit " she hung up
Philip came out of the shower ..
your baby just called " I said handing him is phone ..
sorry " he said
your baby just called Philip you are married for Christ sake when are you going to learn to keep your zipper closed " I asked
you will show me some respect " he said
respect for what you just no different from a dog " I said
he punched me
I held my cheek as tears streamed down my face. .
you are my wife you have No right talking to me like that" he said
I got up didn't say a word I just slept I woke up with a terrible headache I took some painkillers took a shower and prepared for school ..I had to cover my bruised cheek with a scarf ..
the weeks that passed my husband was giving me cold shoulders ..
why get married at 18" Tim asked
I got pregnant and my parents didn't want anything to do with me " I said
that's sad and your baby " he asked
I had a miscarriage" I said
he rubbed my back it felt so good to have someone to talk too..we went to my place to do our assignments since it was near to the school ..
Philip walked in
you are welcome my love" I said
thank you " he said looking at Tim
my love this is my classmate and friend Tim" I said
hello" Tim said
hi" he said
Tim could sense some tension ..
I have to go " Tim said
so soon" I said
yes we will finish tomorrow " he said
OK let me see you off " I said
I escorted Tim and gave him a hug .
how was work " I asked as I entered our bedroom
so you have started bringing guys here when am not around " he asked
Philip he is my friend " I said
the one you sleep with " he asked
I won't be insulted like this " I said trying to walk out
he grab me and pushed me to the wall
I screamed ..
what kind of an animal are you " I asked
you have even the power to talk " he said
he came closer and punched me in my stomach
you are useless " he said
I crawled at the corner and cried ..
who turned my sweet husband into this monster. he didn't come home for a week. I became so worried that I had to check his brother's house
its been long since I saw him I wanted to come this weekend to pay you a visit " the brother said
i thought he was here" I said
no " he said
OK" I said getting up
is he the one hitting you " he asked
no " I said
you can talk to me " he said
he isn't the one " I said
OK" he said
I wanted to tell the brother the truth but I didn't want to be in trouble