Everyone went to bath then Zinhle called us downstairs for breakfast we gathered around the table and started dishing up for ourselves I was sitting next to Siya Noah on the middle on my other side Busi Sane his Girlfriend and sanga were opposite us.
Zinhle : can we say grace ?
We held hands she prayed then we started eating.
Everyone properly introduced themselves right after Siya spoke
Zinhle : xhosa men are really something hey
Busi whispered but a really loud whisper
Busi: is she trying to flirt with Siya in front of her man?
Me : eat your food !
I tried really hard not to laugh Sane was busy trying to show off to Siya about how much money he had and how many cars he drove I think what got to him was that Siya drove a car that looked like his and Sane liked to stand out all the time and be the center of attention but Siya was just chilled he didn't give him a chance.
Zinhle : Babe your son really looks like you his so cute I can't wait to spend time with him
Sane : I know my Love
Sanga : this is a nice house
Sane : Thank you when you get paid proper money it has to show
Me : not everything is about money you know
Him : yes it is would you date a broke niggar? Is he broke?
Me : I don't think it matters that's just my opinion
Zinhle : I think it does
Busi : maybe you're a gold digger
Zinhle : of course you would know it better what did you say you do again?
Sane : she's a waitress
Me : I'm sure she was talking to Busi
Zinhle : I thought as much so you wouldn't know anything about money
When Busi was about to stand up I held her arm really tight
Me : come down its not even worth it
Siya : so you normally have these type of conversation with your son around? That's what you want him to grow up believing? That money is everything
Sane : tell me.. when are you having your own son? So that you can raise him in poverty
Siya : it's not even about that there are more important things that come before money
Sane : well I don't care as long as you think that way you'll never be where I am
Siya : Actually I'm more beyond that but it's not a completion mate and I'm more matured not to brag about it
Sane : I..
Sanga : can we just eat in peace!!! It's Noah's birthday and we would like to celebrate that not your status fine you have a lot of money who cares? No one but your tramp we all have our money here it doesn't matter if it's a lot or not God!!
Zinhle : baby did she just call me a tramp?
Me : the beacon is really nice
Busi : I like the cheese
We both busted in laughter Zinhle was so annoyed.
By the time we finished eating the conversation was just going between the 4 of us.
Me : want me to help you with the dishes Zinhle?
Her : no its fine the maid will wash them
I looked at Sane
Me : you have a maid?
Him : Yes Zinhle is always at work
Me : mhh okay
We started singing for my baby he was so happy he even sang along
Me : come let mommy bath you so we can go shopping neh
Noah : okay mama
Zinhle : we already bought him presents
Me : so?
Busi and Sanga laughed
Busi : let's go get dressed girls
Sane : siya you coming with me right? We gonna meet friend's of mine then go buy meat and liquor
Siya : Cool
We all left the table when I was climbing the stairs...
Siya : Baby come here
I went back to him he cupped my waist then kissed me
Me : mmh what was that for?
Him : nothing I just miss you don't you want us to book a hotel I don't think I can survive one more night here
Me : if you are not comfortable we can baby
Him : it's not that but you know I don't like being disrespected
Me : looks like Sane is warming up to you
look after Noah's party if you still don't wanna be here we'll leave okay?
Him : cool see you in a few
Me : Okay bye
I went upstairs to bath Noah then dressed him into his New denim shorts and his cartoon T-shirt and sneakers then he went to watch TV in his room. The girls and I changed in the same room we decided to wear shorts then change when we come back. After we finished we went downstairs
Me : are you coming with us?
Zinhle : yes let me wear my heels
Busi was just fed up
Busi : why did you even invite her?
Me : hay chomy don't fight evil with evil
Busi : I'm fighting evil with fire here
I playfully pushed her after 5minutes of wearing heels she finally came down.
We were leaving with Siya's car we got in then I drove to the mall on the way we listened to how much her ring cost and how romantic Sane proposed basically she was talking alone I even regretted asking her to come with us Busi was never scared to be rude she just randomly played music really loud then folded her arms.
I parked the car then we went inside for the first time I let my son choose things for himself we bought clothes and toys then me and the girls did our own shopping.
Me : is there anything that we can buy for the house?
Her : no thank you
around 1 we went back Sane and Siya weren't back yet and I was panicking because Sane knew we had to start with Noah's birthday.
Zinhle poured wine then she played music and then we all chilled outside apart from acting like a snob there was a nice part of her shame or I was getting used to her because for that short while we kinda all got along or maybe it was because her man wasn't around. I was starting to panic because it was now 4 o'clock
Busi : Siya is a grown man
Me : I know but his with Sane and you know how he is besides it's about Noah
Zinhle : his changed you know
Me : Sane will never change he will forever behave like a teenager
Her : different people bring different sides of you
Me : so what are you trying to say? That I was the influence?
Her : no I'm just saying you can see now his more sophisticated and focused
Me : keep telling yourself that
Noah came and sat on top of me
Him : Mommy I'm hungry
Me : Okay let's go to the kitchen big boy
Zinhle : don't you want to come with aunty? I'll make you something nice
Noah shook his head
Busi : kids can smell evil
Then she gave her the biggest smile
I went to make Noah something to eat when we went back to the lounge Siya and Sane came in followed by a lot of guys some Sane's friends some I didn't know. Busi's mouth was opened
Her : I can't choose they are all so steamy
They came to sit down then greeted and introduced themselves
Sane : so I thought since we are celebrating my son's birth day we might as well combine it with our engagement party so I'm gonna ask you guys to please stay
I looked at Sane in disbelief
Me : Sane can I talk to you?
Him : sure
They both stood up with Zinhle
Busi : alone!
She sat back down I started to see that she was really scared of Busi
Sane and I walked to the kitchen
Me : really? You go ahead and do this?
Him : what did I do?
Me : Sanelisiwe it's 5 o'clock Noah hasn't cut his cake you were supposed to bring his friends at 3 so he can open his presents and play with the other kids instead you come back with your friends and booze and talk about an engagement party what about your son's birthday? It's your last priority now
Him : of course not look I'm sorry I know I should've brought his friends over but there's still tomorrow
Me : tomorrow it's not his birthday
Him : it's not a big deal wonke his only turning 4
Me : wow i don't even know why I bothered and talked to you about this
Him : Awonke we will give Noah his presents and he will cut his cake his friends don't have to be here we are here
Me : then after an hour you are going to be focusing on your engagement and neglect him? You could've done the party any day but you chose this one once again you want to be the center of attention over Noah you don't care what happens to your son he might be young but he feels being neglected.
I was really hurt and angry that Sane couldn't put his selfishness aside just for a few hours and try to make his son enjoy his day if he wanted his engagement to happen that same day he could've at least spent the day with Noah then later on do his thing but no the mighty Sane always has to have things his way I left him standing there and stormed upstairs .